. It has been said that even a small amount of real love has the power to dissolve mountains of hate. The wonder is why we are so stingy with our good will, why we hold onto thoughts of hatred and revenge.
5.\tSeeing this is the first step. Letting go comes next.
6.\tRather than pretending to be loving and peaceful, we must learn how to actively work with all that opposes peace. We must learn how to work with our fear and anger when it arises. Even in the midst of anger we can be peaceful, if we learn how to handle it properly. In this way we pursue and practice peace.
1.\t要想达到心静如水的心境需要从众多方面入手：从我们的内心，我们和他人之间的关系，以及我们和我们内心之间的关系。当任何一方失去平衡，都不能维持一种持久的平静心境。
2.\t一种平静的心境并不来自于一种错觉的安全感，而是来自于对如何应对我们周遭事物的理解。不要去机械地应对，相反，我们必须学着去以最好的方式应对事物。
3.\t机械的，习惯性的反应会将我们带入一个狭窄的盲区。而相反，理智的反应，包括反应能力，却是一种能看透事物本质的能力。保持各方面的平衡，并做出适当的反应，这才是追求心境如水的本质行为。
4.\t很多人可能并没有意识到他们的选择和行动对他们自己的生活以及他人生活的巨大影响力。人们曾说哪怕是一点点真爱都会有着化解一座冰山的力量。既然如此，那么我们为什么还要如此吝啬我们的善意，为什么还要紧紧抓住仇恨和复仇的思想不放手。
5.\t认识到这一点是第一步，学会释怀就是第二步。
6.\t不要强装爱与平静，相反，我们必需积极地学会应付各类对平静的干扰。我们必需学会当恐惧与愤怒滋长时如何去理智地应付。如果我们学会如何适当地应付，即使在愤怒进行时，我们也可以平静下来。这样，我们就能够真正地做到心静如水。
These Things I Wish For You爷爷的期望
1.\tWe tried so hard to make things better for our kids that we made them worse. For my grandchildren, I d know better.
2.\tI’d really like for them to know about hand-me-down clothes and home-made ice cream and leftover meatloaf. I really would.
3.\tMy cherished grandson, I hope you learn humility by surviving failure and that you learn to be honest even when no one is looking.
4.\tI hope you learn to make your bed and mow the lawn and wash the car—and I hope nobody gives you a brand-new car when you are sixteen.
5.\tIt will be good if at least one time you can see a baby calf born, and you have a good friend to be with you if you ever have to put your old dog to sleep.
6.\tI hope you get a black eye fighting for something you believe in.
7.\tI hope you have t